We have started dating and yet he is on my mind quite a bit and I have never felt this Shan before .. we are connected getting on so well and all I am thinking about is spending time with him asking him about his life and goals and being happy with him.
I’ve been talking to this guy I met online for almost a year now but he lives in another city to me. Just recently he came to my city and I thought he would ask me out on a date but he didn’t. Before we came he would hint that he wanted to meet up but nothing when he came. When he was in my city he didn’t even message me once. But as soon as he’s back I get constant messages from him. If he was a fboy he would’ve messaged me when he was here to hook up right ? I know he’s not catfish because I’ve seen his snapchat instagrams and other social media
Why does he show interest now that he’s far from me ?
I’m not sure where I first heard about it, but whenever I develop feelings for a friend, get rejected and want to remain friends afterwards, I always take a break from talking to them: cut contact and ignore them on social media and such. Give myself time to get over it and move on. It usually works out.
I forget how we got on the topic, but I discussed this with a friend and they found it weird: they’re a bit more of a “lady’s man” and more outgoing than I am. They said when they get rejected, they just suck it up and move on all within the same day. They find it weird that I need to take a break from talking.
While I guess some don’t need to take breaks, is it really so weird that I do?
Do other people do similar things when they get rejected??
So my friend has a boyfriend, who has a friend. Her and her boyfriend want me to set me up with this guy, i’ll call him Toby. That was a few weeks ago, right now both of our friend groups want us together and know that there’s potential there. Anyway a few weeks ago I was with my friend, her boyfriend and some other friends. He started to tell me that he spoke to Toby the other day and that he asked him if he thinks i’m good looking, Toby said that he does this i’m attractive and that he thinks I could be quite lovely and nice, but that he sin’t really looking for a relationship. I was immensely disappointed by this, but also a little happy that he thinks i’m attractive. Anyway all of his friends still want us together and that the only reason he doesn’t want a relationship is because of his ex from a year ago, and that their relationship was a little toxic. He’s always looking at me, and smiling, his friends always make fun of him because they know he thinks i’m attractive and that i think he is as well. Anyway i’m getting to the verge of anxiety because I don’t know what to do from here, he’s sending me mixed signals, and I quite like him, he’s a good guy. By the way, I’m 18, he’s 20. So I’m quite stuck about what to do..
Will reward the best answer tomorrow dinner time.